Why do do older and successful black men and women refer to the inner city young black males as “Pookie and Ray Ray” ?? That’s a broad generalization and a stereotype that we label our young black men from lower income societies. We cry and moan when white people generalize and stereotype us but then we turn around do the same thing to our very own. How about we start uplifting the young black males in the inner city that are economically deprived and stop calling them derogatory names trying to be the uppity negro.
so black people are not smart enough to label young inner city black males that may be unemployed properly ?? So it’s better degrade them and make fun of their living conditions ?? why do you all care about dusty Negros? Everyone your color isn’t your kind. The quicker we separate ourselves from dusty Negros and hood rats, the better. Everyone there isn’t Pookie or Ray Ray. Just the dusty Negros that make the ghetto the shit holes that they are.
The one’s who use those terms are usually jealous of so called”pookie and ray ray for getting to sleep with and make babies with the same women who turned them down or”friend zoned them…lol…(just an observation).
Make up two new names. It doesn’t matter. Those two stereotypical people are walking around rn. Breaking in peoples shit and standing at the corner store begging working women with children for change.
Go out and talk to these ignorant individuals instead of trying to protect their names. Try changing their behaviors which quite honestly matter more than what they’re called.
It’s the superiority complex. Is it embedded or acquired? We pass on what was taught to us. From religion to spankings. It is a culture. Unfortunately those tho break free do not gather to write a composite of books to reprogram the masses. They are quite bitter woman hating dudes use that to term in an attempt to blame women for baby daddy being a deadbeat…and label themselves good men.
Beautiful black woman. The false sense of strength is because of outright stubbornness and cognitive dissonance, and refusing correction, and that I might add is “strength”. Everyone on this planet has to be held accountable for uncontrollable emotions Ms Campbell. I addressed your comments because they seemed sincere.
Many black women are angry because they have to deal with hate from both YT people and their own people. They are really just hurting. That’s why I say more black people need to go to therapy to heal. Men love to single shame women, but honestly single women are happier, healthy, and they live longer than married women. Those women walking around with the stank attitude probably got a man who is stressing them out!!
The shame is some Mother’s believing they can raise a boy to a Man. The shame is having multiple children with several hood wolf types. Being “single” is not a conspiracy or controversial. It becomes controversial, when lies are being told. And the wrong parties are blamed for the dysfunction.
Guess what?? Not all of us have or want children. I’m childless, single, and happy!! Also it takes a village to raise a child. Just because a woman is not with her baby’s father does mean she doesn’t have a father, brother, or male cousin to help teach her son to be a man.
Simple topics like this one you see sisters talk themselves into a situation where they must ignore your opinions or questions because they can’t give you a true logical reason as to why they feel they have to bring a attitude into a relationship when it’s not required.
They can say it takes a special man to handle a black woman because she’s 💪🏿 she has a attitude and doesn’t want a weak man but when you ask them who does she need to bring that attitude into the relationship and why does she consider a man that wants peace and tranquility in his home to be weak? Sisters can’t answer the question instead tell you you have mental issues and you have issues with your mother I was just told this simply for asking questions about a sisters thought process on this subject.